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8 Dangerous Attitudes Killing Your Relationship

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Your attitude may be that poison that is slowing killing your intimacy but you see nothing wrong with it.

Find below Habits you should desist from as they are harmful to your relationship

1. Being the Perfect Spouse

Criticizing, complaining and being Judgmental on a daily basis may become unbearable for your partner. Dont always justify the wrong you do as good, and see wrong with everybody else.

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2. Self Acceptance Issues

Dont always complain about how bad you look or how everything about you is off. Seeing wrong with you all the time could cause your partner to see wrong with you and could cause you to be less attractive to him or her.

Its ok to once in a while not feel to ok about something around you and seek assertion or flattery. But dont make it a daily habit. Always feel good about yourself.

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3. Relying Solely on your own Opinion:Listen to your partner’s views too, you are not always right. Making your partner feel less heard could cause them to feel less needed or less important.

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4. Always Thinking negative about your Spouse:When you are always looking for lies and tricks around every corner it makes it difficult for your partner to breathe. With this, you always have trust issues and always think of every little gesture as he or she doing or meaning something is wrong.Make room for positivity.

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3. Relying Solely on your own Opinion:Listen to your partner’s views too, you are not always right. Making your partner feel less heard could cause them to feel less needed or less important.

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4. Always Thinking negative about your Spouse:When you are always looking for lies and tricks around every corner it makes it difficult for your partner to breathe. With this, you always have trust issues and always think of every little gesture as he or she doing or meaning something is wrong.Make room for positivity.

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5. Don’t Be Overly ControllingDon’t control your partner’s movements, actions, habits, and wishes. Let them feel free.If it’s something that will hurt them and not kill them, don’t force if they disagree, let them learn.

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6. Giving hints instead of saying things directlyGiving attitude is one major thing that ruins a relationship. You don’t always have to expect your partner to know what’s in your head. Communication is key. Speak it out calmly and address it needfully.

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7. Recalling Past IssuesAll the wrongs your partner did some very long time ago are still in your head, you are just waiting for the next argument or gesture to pour them all down. Learn to forgive and treat each other with positivity.

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8. Comparing your spouse with others.Stick to appreciation and adoring the good things your partner does; and the things they make effort at.We can’t all be equal. Embrace who you have and their efforts.

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